To Spend
and Be Expended for Others
2 Corinthians
12:11-13:14
Jim
Davis
Paul’s letters are full of instructions on
how to deal with conflict within the church. Throughout his epistles he
is functioning as an ambassador as he instructs numerous congregations
as to how to handle their problems. As individuals in the first century
were converted from literally every spectrum of society problems were inevitable.
There were cultural and religious differences, as well as intellectual
and emotional differences. Of course, there are always those preaching
false teaching questioning Paul’s credentials. Clicks had formed in first
century congregations around personalities. There were problems of carnality
and immorality.
Paul approached the problems of the first
century like a true diplomat. I think that the first job of a diplomat
is to recognize the importance of each person involved in the conflict.
What sets the Bible apart from other religious writings is the spirit by
which the writers of the Bible wrote. The spirit exemplified by the writers
is absolutely astonishing. There is not a single hint of vindictiveness
on the part of those proclaiming the message. Bible writers entered into
the conflict with a truly humble spirit. The spiritual attitude of Paul
is absolutely amazing.
A Truly Humble Spirit
Paul speaks of the spirit he manifested to
the Thessalonians.
1 Thessalonians 2:3-12
For the appeal we make does
not spring from error or impure motives, nor are we trying to trick you.
On the contrary, we speak as men approved by God to be entrusted with the
gospel. We are not trying to please men but God, who tests our hearts.
You know we never used flattery, nor did we put on a mask to cover up greed-God
is our witness. We were not looking for praise from men, not from you or
anyone else.
As apostles of Christ we could
have been a burden to you, 7 but we were gentle among you, like a mother
caring for her little children. 8 We loved you so much that we were delighted
to share with you not only the gospel of God but our lives as well, because
you had become so dear to us. Surely you remember, brothers, our toil and
hardship; we worked night and day in order not to be a burden to anyone
while we preached the gospel of God to you.
You are witnesses, and so is
God, of how holy, righteous and blameless we were among you who believed.
For you know that we dealt with each of you as a father deals with his
own children, encouraging, comforting and urging you to live lives worthy
of God, who calls you into his kingdom and glory. (NIV)
The mark of Paul's greatness was his ability
to maintain a spirit of humility as he dealt with the conflicts within
the church. It was no big thing to Paul that others sought to discredit
him. Paul didn’t want his message discredited. To do this he maintained
a spirit of humility.
2 Corinthians 12:11-13
I have made a fool of myself,
but you drove me to it. I ought to have been commended by you, for I am
not in the least inferior to the "super-apostles," even though I am nothing.
The things that mark an apostle-signs, wonders and miracles-were done among
you with great perseverance. How were you inferior to the other churches,
except that I was never a burden to you? Forgive me this wrong! (NIV)
Americans have felt the lack of appreciation
for their efforts to spread freedom and democracy around the globe. How
many of our soldiers have ended up in graves in foreign countries because
of their efforts to bring freedom to others. How many times have we fought
some other country's war at our own expense? Yet, how quickly do our soldiers
respond to the call of duty and devotion with little or no complaint? Likewise,
Paul continued to humbly serve the congregation in Corinth regardless of
his lack of appreciation.
1 Corinthians 4:6-13
Now, brothers, I have applied
these things to myself and Apollos for your benefit, so that you may learn
from us the meaning of the saying, "Do not go beyond what is written."
Then you will not take pride in one man over against another. For who makes
you different from anyone else? What do you have that you did not receive?
And if you did receive it, why do you boast as though you did not?
Already you have all you want!
Already you have become rich! You have become kings-and that without us!
How I wish that you really had become kings so that we might be kings with
you! For it seems to me that God has put us apostles on display at the
end of the procession, like men condemned to die in the arena. We have
been made a spectacle to the whole universe, to angels as well as to men.
We are fools for Christ, but you are so wise in Christ! We are weak, but
you are strong! You are honored, we are dishonored! To this very hour we
go hungry and thirsty, we are in rags, we are brutally treated, we are
homeless. We work hard with our own hands. When we are cursed, we bless;
when we are persecuted, we endure it; when we are slandered, we answer
kindly. Up to this moment we have become the scum of the earth, the refuse
of the world. (NIV)
In the Old Testament, God’s prophets are set
apart by being able to perform certain accrediting miracles. If the things
these prophets promise to do are not accomplished, it is sure proof that
they are false prophets (see Deuteronomy 18:21-22). There were accrediting
miracles as well in the ministry of our Lord and His chosen apostles:
Hebrews 2:1-4
We must pay more careful attention,
therefore, to what we have heard, so that we do not drift away. For if
the message spoken by angels was binding, and every violation and disobedience
received its just punishment, how shall we escape if we ignore such a great
salvation? This salvation, which was first announced by the Lord, was confirmed
to us by those who heard him. God also testified to it by signs, wonders
and various miracles, and gifts of the Holy Spirit distributed according
to his will. (NIV)
The signs of an apostle followed Paul wherever
he went. The miracles God worked through the apostle allowed the people
to see the wonders of God and they served as a sign that the apostle was
from God.
"God wanted them to understand that Paul was
not like the religious hucksters of his day or of ours. He will not go
about ‘missionarying,’ as Mark Twain described this type of religious swindling.
Paul does not set up a large tent, promising dazzling miracles, then perform
magic tricks to the wonder of his audience—followed by a collection. Paul
performs the 'signs of a true apostle' before an audience, which
includes many skeptics and hecklers. He does not have a controlled setting,
where tricks can be played on a gullible audience. Paul’s signs are performed
in the most difficult setting with the most skeptical observers watching,
looking for any hint of falsehood or deception. In this most difficult
setting, Paul is shown to be a 'true apostle.' I believe the same
words can be said of Paul’s ministry in Corinth, and that this is what
Paul means when he writes of performing 'the signs of a true apostle'
with all perseverance.
"Paul reminds his Corinthian readers that
they are witnesses of these accrediting miracles, and that these are no
less impressive or convincing than those performed by the most highly regarded
of the apostles. Paul writes that these ‘signs of a true apostle’
were performed among the Corinthians ‘with all perseverance.’
(Paul’s Closing Argument, Appeal, and Blessing, Robert Deffinbaugh, http://www.bible.org)
Feeling Superior Doesn’t Work
What God was doing through Paul did not make
him strut in self-flagellating pride. He did not think himself to be a
"super-apostle." Instead God's work done through Paul led the apostle to
persevere in humility as he sought to deal with the problems in the Corinthian
congregation. His humility was revealed as he sought the good of others.
1 Corinthians 10:23-24
"Everything is permissible"-but
not everything is beneficial. "Everything is permissible"-but not everything
is constructive. Nobody should seek his own good, but the good of others.
(NIV)
The miracles served as a sign of God’s presence
in Paul’s life. However, it was Paul’s attitude toward those he taught
that gave him personal credibility. His ambassadorship required great perseverance
among those troubled. He did not consider himself the least bit superior,
although he was not the least inferior. But he says, "I am nothing."
Nothing reveals an unchristian attitude more than letting knowledge
go to our head.
1 Corinthians 8:1-3
Now about food sacrificed to
idols: We know that we all possess knowledge. Knowledge puffs up, but love
builds up. The man who thinks he knows something does not yet know as he
ought to know. But the man who loves God is known by God. (NIV)
The proper use of knowledge will give us a
realization of the strengths and weakness of each person without a feeling
of superiority. If you want to build a church you will have to trust God
and use the gifts God has given you without becoming high minded about
what he has given you.
Romans 12:3-13
For by the grace given me I
say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you
ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance
with the measure of faith God has given you. Just as each of us has one
body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function,
so in Christ we who are many form one body, and each member belongs to
all the others. We have different gifts, according to the grace given us.
If a man's gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to his faith.
If it is serving, let him serve; if it is teaching, let him teach; if it
is encouraging, let him encourage; if it is contributing to the needs of
others, let him give generously; if it is leadership, let him govern diligently;
if it is showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully.
Love must be sincere. Hate what
is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly
love. Honor one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but
keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. Be joyful in hope, patient
in affliction, faithful in prayer. Share with God's people who are in need.
Practice hospitality. (NIV)
If we are going to build a church we
are going to have to entrust the work to the ones God has gifted.
A story is told of a tramp that came begging to a good woman’s door. She
went to get something to give to him and found that she had no change at
all in the house. She went to him and told him and said, "I have not a
penny of small change. I need a loaf of bread. Here is a pound note. Go
and buy the loaf and bring me back the change and I will give you something."
The man did as he was asked and returned and
the woman gave him some money. He took it with tears in his eyes. "It’s
not the money," he said, "it’s the way you trusted me. No one ever trusted
me like that before, and I can’t thank you enough."
It would be easy to say that the woman took
a risk that only a soft hearted fool would take, but she had given that
man more than money, she had given him something of herself by giving her
trust.
Paul revealed his confidence in the church
at Corinthian by investing his possessions and expending himself for them.
In essence he is entrusting himself to them. Paul’s devotion to the church
is seen in that he was willing to spend his resources and expend himself
on their behalf. Paul not only taught the life saving message, but he brought
the message to them through his own life-changing experience of Gods grace.
He exemplified the message as he spent his resources and expended himself
for them.
2 Corinthians 12:14-15
Now I am ready to visit you
for the third time, and I will not be a burden to you, because what I want
is not your possessions but you. After all, children should not have to
save up for their parents, but parents for their children. So I will very
gladly spend for you everything I have and expend myself as well. If I
love you more, will you love me less? (NIV)
Proper Response to Problems
The Corinthians could not say that Paul had
ever taken advantage of them. As you read these letters you realize Paul
is asking for nothing for himself. He seeks to bring them closer to Christ.
2 Corinthians 12:19-21
Have you been thinking all
along that we have been defending ourselves to you? We have been speaking
in the sight of God as those in Christ; and everything we do, dear friends,
is for your strengthening. For I am afraid that when I come I may not find
you as I want you to be, and you may not find me as you want me to be.
I fear that there may be quarreling, jealousy, outbursts of anger, factions,
slander, gossip, arrogance and disorder. I am afraid that when I come again
my God will humble me before you, and I will be grieved over many who have
sinned earlier and have not repented of the impurity, sexual sin and debauchery
in which they have indulged. (NIV)
The effectiveness of the gospel is seen in
how we respond to our problems. It is often hard to answer your critics
without sounding defensive. Paul’s approach was to reveal his heart to
the Corinthians. His heart was motivated by the compelling love of Christ.
His willingness to expend himself for them revealed that he was not seeking
anything for himself.
2 Corinthians 5:12-15
We are not trying to commend
ourselves to you again, but are giving you an opportunity to take pride
in us, so that you can answer those who take pride in what is seen rather
than in what is in the heart. If we are out of our mind, it is for the
sake of God; if we are in our right mind, it is for you. For Christ's love
compels us, because we are convinced that one died for all, and therefore
all died. And he died for all, that those who live should no longer live
for themselves but for him who died for them and was raised again. (NIV)
Paul writes, "For I am afraid that when
I come I may not find you as I want you to be, and you may not find me
as you want me to be." Paul didn’t want to have to go to Corinth to
straighten out the problems. He wanted the Corinthians to handle their
own problems. Paul was afraid of finding trouble when he visited. He writes,
"I fear that there may be quarreling, jealousy, outbursts of anger,
factions, slander, gossip, arrogance and disorder."
However, if the problems aren’t corrected
when he visits, he will personally deal with the problems.
2 Corinthians 13:1-5
This will be my third visit
to you. "Every matter must be established by the testimony of two or three
witnesses." I already gave you a warning when I was with you the second
time. I now repeat it while absent: On my return I will not spare those
who sinned earlier or any of the others, since you are demanding proof
that Christ is speaking through me. He is not weak in dealing with you,
but is powerful among you. For to be sure, he was crucified in weakness,
yet he lives by God's power. Likewise, we are weak in him, yet by God's
power we will live with him to serve you.
Examine yourselves to see whether
you are in the faith; test yourselves. Do you not realize that Christ Jesus
is in you-unless, of course, you fail the test? NIV
Paul is speaking of church discipline, which
would follow the pattern that Jesus set forth.
Matthew 18:15-20
"If your brother sins against
you, go and show him his fault, just between the two of you. If he listens
to you, you have won your brother over. But if he will not listen, take
one or two others along, so that 'every matter may be established by the
testimony of two or three witnesses.' If he refuses to listen to them,
tell it to the church; and if he refuses to listen even to the church,
treat him as you would a pagan or a tax collector.
"I tell you the truth, whatever
you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth
will be loosed in heaven.
"Again, I tell you that if two
of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you
by my Father in heaven. For where two or three come together in my name,
there am I with them." (NIV)
It seems important to note that Paul is about
to make his third visit to Corinth. We can safely assume that he has carefully
followed Jesus' instruction. He has visited them twice. He has laid out
the case against them in his first letter and he addressed the problem
more fully in his second letter. Paul wants them to examine their situation
and pass judgment upon themselves.
Now it is time to take action in the form
of discipline. It is not discipline from a heart of vengeance. Paul's threat
of discipline came from the heart of a servant. It writes, "by God's
power we will live with him to serve you" (2 Corinthians 13:4 NIV).
Paul has approached Corinth's problems in
the meekness and gentleness of Christ (10:1). But now he is threatening
them with his authority. Paul writes, "This is why I write these things
when I am absent, that when I come I may not have to be harsh in my use
of authority--the authority the Lord gave me for building you up, not for
tearing you down" (13:10).
Conclusion:
Paul sought to get them to recognize their
responsibility regardless of how they felt about him.
2 Corinthians 13:5-10
Examine yourselves to see whether
you are in the faith; test yourselves. Do you not realize that Christ Jesus
is in you-unless, of course, you fail the test? And I trust that you will
discover that we have not failed the test. Now we pray to God that
you will not do anything wrong. Not that people will see that we have stood
the test but that you will do what is right even though we may seem to
have failed. 8 For we cannot do anything against the truth, but only for
the truth. We are glad whenever we are weak but you are strong; and our
prayer is for your perfection. This is why I write these things
when I am absent, that when I come I may not have to be harsh in my use
of authority-the authority the Lord gave me for building you up, not for
tearing you down. (NIV)
As you read the letter to the Corinthians
Paul’s pure heartfelt desire for the Corinthians perfection is evident.
He was sincerely using his authority to build them up, rather than tearing
them down.
